Wednesday, November 19, 2008

surrounding yourself with goodness


This is your own responsibility. i truly believe this. you are responsible for the people that you are around. not for their actions, but for the fact that you CHOOSE to be around them. i hear people consistently say how upset they are about so and so and they don't even know why they are friends with people. it is simple. you are around the wrong people and you are owning what they are doing and not what you are responsible for.

after choosing to be in some not-so-hot relationships, i can't tell you how refreshing it is to come home from a long day and have someone say, after i have burnt dinner, my finger, and am frustrated, "you are the best, oh...and you are so cute too" i can't tell you how great it is to be on IM with my friend and after telling her about a time in life that was not so great, have her say, "you are awesome", or how great it is to get online and find a blog that is singing your praises as a friend.

i don't need these reassurances from any of these people, i'm confident in myself...but it is most important for me to know that these people are wonderful, healthy, and honest.

i've picked a good bunch this time

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a little something about me and the life i choose to live!

surrounding yourself with goodness

This is your own responsibility. i truly believe this. you are responsible for the people that you are around. not for their actions, but for the fact that you CHOOSE to be around them. i hear people consistently say how upset they are about so and so and they don't even know why they are friends with people. it is simple. you are around the wrong people and you are owning what they are doing and not what you are responsible for.

after choosing to be in some not-so-hot relationships, i can't tell you how refreshing it is to come home from a long day and have someone say, after i have burnt dinner, my finger, and am frustrated, "you are the best, oh...and you are so cute too" i can't tell you how great it is to be on IM with my friend and after telling her about a time in life that was not so great, have her say, "you are awesome", or how great it is to get online and find a blog that is singing your praises as a friend.

i don't need these reassurances from any of these people, i'm confident in myself...but it is most important for me to know that these people are wonderful, healthy, and honest.

i've picked a good bunch this time

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