i've been thinking a bit about the different ways that people show these two things to people. it's different, i think, in every relationship...or at least, it has been for me. i think in the past, i've been just as happy as the next girl with the obligatory valentine's surprise...which typically has consisted of something in the line of a gift, and then dinner, etc.
i've reached the point, and i don't know why, where i DON'T want that, specifically because of the fact that that could be construed as something that that significant other feels that they HAVE to do because it's February 14th. I'd much rather go out to dinner on August 28th, if truth be told. Why August 28th, you ask? i have no idea, but mostly because it's not February 14th.
we have a friend who is coming up with his girl to our neck of the woods. this is a "new" relationship and for this person, is one of the few that he's ever had "relations" in, if you get my drift. so, needless to say, there is probably some major action going on on a regular basis and by regular, i mean every 5 minutes. anyway, we are set to do something with them on the 15th, as we are seeing our favourite comedian Brian Regan then. But, the rest of the weekend, they have pushed away invitations to stay at our house, to hang out, to do just about anything. that is o.k. however, what is funny to me, is what my husband volunteered to do in order to set the romantic mood for these two. he volunteered to set up a picnic, with gourmet food, in a spot where they would conveniently be hiking.
i think that is sweet.
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on Wednesday, February 4, 2009
i've been thinking a bit about the different ways that people show these two things to people. it's different, i think, in every relationship...or at least, it has been for me. i think in the past, i've been just as happy as the next girl with the obligatory valentine's surprise...which typically has consisted of something in the line of a gift, and then dinner, etc.
i've reached the point, and i don't know why, where i DON'T want that, specifically because of the fact that that could be construed as something that that significant other feels that they HAVE to do because it's February 14th. I'd much rather go out to dinner on August 28th, if truth be told. Why August 28th, you ask? i have no idea, but mostly because it's not February 14th.
we have a friend who is coming up with his girl to our neck of the woods. this is a "new" relationship and for this person, is one of the few that he's ever had "relations" in, if you get my drift. so, needless to say, there is probably some major action going on on a regular basis and by regular, i mean every 5 minutes. anyway, we are set to do something with them on the 15th, as we are seeing our favourite comedian Brian Regan then. But, the rest of the weekend, they have pushed away invitations to stay at our house, to hang out, to do just about anything. that is o.k. however, what is funny to me, is what my husband volunteered to do in order to set the romantic mood for these two. he volunteered to set up a picnic, with gourmet food, in a spot where they would conveniently be hiking.
i think that is sweet.
i've reached the point, and i don't know why, where i DON'T want that, specifically because of the fact that that could be construed as something that that significant other feels that they HAVE to do because it's February 14th. I'd much rather go out to dinner on August 28th, if truth be told. Why August 28th, you ask? i have no idea, but mostly because it's not February 14th.
we have a friend who is coming up with his girl to our neck of the woods. this is a "new" relationship and for this person, is one of the few that he's ever had "relations" in, if you get my drift. so, needless to say, there is probably some major action going on on a regular basis and by regular, i mean every 5 minutes. anyway, we are set to do something with them on the 15th, as we are seeing our favourite comedian Brian Regan then. But, the rest of the weekend, they have pushed away invitations to stay at our house, to hang out, to do just about anything. that is o.k. however, what is funny to me, is what my husband volunteered to do in order to set the romantic mood for these two. he volunteered to set up a picnic, with gourmet food, in a spot where they would conveniently be hiking.
i think that is sweet.


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