there are certain things...

that a loved one can do that no others can. i mean, it's almost endearing in someways, but when you really think about it, you would beat the crap out of someone if they did that to you. like slapping someone on the butt, or grabbing it. just inappropriate, but for some reason, you decided that for THIS person to do it, it's o.k. husbands and wives put up with this all of the time, even about things that are said to one and other. Can you imagine, having a stranger come up to you and say, "wow, you're getting a little bigger lately" just NOT o.k. there is no point to this, and no, this is not happening to me, but i just had a thought about it.