control

control and the feeling of the lack thereof is really the root of all evil. I think it is the basis of all that makes us fearful. lack of Control makes us say things that we don't really mean to say, just to show we are right. lack of Control makes us argue about things that we know are wrong, just for the sake of being right. lack of Control is what makes you say, "no, you can't do that" when you know very well...they CAN.