sometimes, life doesn't turn out the way we thought it would...

but it's all part of the plan.  I think that sometimes that's the hardest thing to realize. 

t and I talk a lot...in fact, just this a.m.   about how life didn't turn out how we thought it would.  he had said something funny, i think he was singing a song about butts and nickels and he made a comment about how he thought when he was an adult, that we would have to be serious and stuffy and he just couldn't believe that it was like it is. 

i have a friend...actually two friends, who are a couple, and right now, things are not turning out the way they thought they would.  i have no doubt in my head, that things will turn out so WAY far above their wildest dreams, they will be sitting there in a few years wondering how life got this way...so perfect and so great. 

t and i are taking a trip to st. thomas in  a bit.  right now, he is begrudgingly telling co-workers, "my wife is having me to go st. thomas".  they are seriously wondering what is wrong with him.  he likes being in control.  traveling and flying, to a lot of people, are NOT the things that make us feel in control.  sometimes, we have to let go and let what is going to happen....happen. 

so to my friends, whom i love SO much:  "It makes no sense to worry about things you have no control over because there's nothing you can do about them, and why worry about things you do control? The activity of worrying keeps you immobilized. "-Wayne Dyer