take what you are given

many times, i like doing things myself. i understand the need to state, "I did this on my own" i get it. what i do not understand is when people who clearly need help, do not take it. i give people what i can and and in the forms that i can. i cannot, right now, financially afford to give huge donations of money to friends and family...however, i can afford to spend time and lend support. i am, for lack of better words, overflowing in that area. always have been. grab the hand that's being put out to you, it's been there all along and it can help make the ride a lot easier